Dating a white woman
In high school, there were other Black students, but none of them in my close-knit drama and speech class circles. It might start with an innocent "did you get a haircut" right after you wash your hair and there is shrinkage--but it does not end... From moisturizing, to protecting with a satin cap, there is always a new and interesting thing for your guy to discover.
Because of this, I have dated quite a few White guys, and while there are similarities when dating any man, there are still some small cultural quirks that never go unnoticed when you’re with a White dude. Trust me, while it gets easier to explain, it doesn't ever stop needing to be explained.2.
But the most important question is a great deal less complicated.
Is dating white women something you are interested in doing?
Their friends want to know what the differences are, even when none are all that apparent. If he says the wrong thing, and you catch wind of it, he knows that's his ass. When you fall in love, it will have nothing to do with your race.
But the biggest category of “no”s come from women who are simply not attracted to you.
A recent study about the Facebook dating app called Are You Interested?
It is now, for the most part a nation where a black man no longer puts his life in peril for making the choice in favor of dating white women.
But echoes of the past have a weird way of intruding on the present and those who recommend that black men steer clear of dating white women may have good reason for their concern.