Dating one person
Every time I date a nice guy, especially if I like him, I feel so insecure and wonder, what if he’s dating someone else at the same time?Just last month, I met a cute guy and we went out and had so much fun together. Now it’s been a month and we’ve gone out four times.I want to be with you without the distraction of other men.If we don’t work out and wind up going our separate ways, at least I’ll know I gave us a fair shot. I expect you to treat me with the same courtesy.” And if he refuses, consider yourself lucky that you’re finding this out now, before throwing away months when you could be dating more effectively. You’d be surprised how much a statement like that will impress and be endearing to quality guys. Sometimes guys need to tell women this as well.) There’s no bigger turn-off than a woman without self-confidence.Here’s why: NO MORE NEEDY VIBE THAT PUSHES MEN AWAYWhen you have all your hopes and dreams wrapped up in any one guy, it’s natural to fear losing him…and losing you.You become obsessed with every phone call, jump when he says jump, and change from the attractive, interesting woman who intrigued him into someone needy and clingy he feels pressured to check in with.HELPING YOU CHOOSE A PARTNER WISELYIt’s hard to see the red flags when there is only one guy on the horizon.If you think he’s your only hope, you tend to gloss over things about him that indicate he’s a good match.
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Tell him you won’t date him while he’s seeing other women. He might say, “I can’t commit right now.” You’re not asking him to.
You’re just requiring that while he’s dating you, he’s dating you and you alone. ” Tell him, “I want to give you my full attention because I value and respect you.
When someone is dating multiple people and not focusing on you, time is passing by.
If you’re dating a guy for two months and he is still not exclusive with you, you need to take a sober look at how you’re using your precious dating time.